Plan your Own

Having a plan for your own wake or memorial will make life much easier for your loved ones when you are no longer around, and will ensure you get the desired send-off. Based on your wishes, After will put together a plan for your wake or memorial. The plan can be as structured or as loose as you prefer but could include examples of preferred venues and locations, catering preferences, music options e.g. a live band or specific playlist, any themes for the event and any charitable organisations where donations are to be sent.

When the time comes, this will provide an essential plan for those who are grieving and will give them the peace of mind that they’re carrying out your final wishes.

Guests gathered at a memorial event in Devon, sharing memories and celebrating the life of a loved one with the support of After's professional memorial planning service.

After uses a modern, down to earth approach.

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Planning your own wake or memorial

Planning your own wake or memorial combines consideration for others with peace of mind that you have planned for the best possible event, when the time comes. After will listen, guide and support you to formulate a bespoke plan tailored to meet all your needs. 

How After works

01

Contact After

Get in touch by phone, email or through our contact form.

02

Discuss your needs

We chat through your ideas and learn about the person at the centre.

03

Personalised plan

After puts together a bespoke plan tailored to your wishes.

04

Share the plan

Review the plan together and choose your level of involvement.

05

The event

A meaningful, personalised event which is a true reflection for you and your loved ones.

The details matter

When planning your own event, you have the freedom to make as many recommendations and suggestions as you wish. The main purpose is to leave a clear plan for your special celebration.

Location ideas and suggestions

Finding the right setting for the
occasion.

Liaising with venues

Handling communication and
coordination on your behalf.

Sourcing local, high-quality suppliers

Ensuring your event is of the highest standard.

Decorating of venues

Creating a meaningful and personal atmosphere.

Adding the "extras"

Finding live music, accommodation, travel options and the finishing touches.

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Here when you need us

For further information, please phone using the number below, fill in the form or drop us an email.
Telephone

07587 648 758

Email Address

after@thewakeplanner.com

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